He who ignores discipline despises himself, but whosoever heeds correction gains understanding. (Proverbs 15:32)

An officer in the navy had dreamed from childhood of commanding a great battleship one day. He finally achieved his dream and was given commission of the newest and proudest ship in the fleet.

One stormy night, the captain was on duty on the bridge when he spotted a strange light rapidly closing in on his own vessel. As his ship plowed through the giant waves, the light rose and fell just above the horizon of the sea. He ordered his signalman to flash a message to the unidentified craft on his port side. “Alter your course ten degrees to the south.”

Within seconds a reply came back, “Alter your course ten degrees to the north.” Determined that his ship would never take a back seat to another vessel, the captain snapped second order. “Alter your course ten degrees–I am the CAPTAIN!!!” The response beamed back, “Alter your course ten degrees–I am Seaman Third Class Smith.” By this time the light was growing brighter and larger.

Infuriated, the captain grabbed the signal light and personally signaled, “Alter course, I am a battleship.” The response came quickly, “Alter your course-I am a lighthouse.”

There are times when standing on principle can compromise our own security and well-being. Perhaps it is best if we allow God to be our “lighthouse” instead of relying on our own demands. God knows the best route for us in all things.

Holy Creator and Guide, lead us in the ways that will be most beneficial for us. May our own egos be put in place. You have a better plan!